Bestselling author Marina Melia has taught how to establish effective dialogue.
To be able to listen, hear and understand, the psychologist recommends following three rules.
First, you need to show “merciless respect” and interest in the interlocutor. To do this, you do not need to constantly interrupt him and defend your own point of view.
Secondly, it is important to focus all your attention on it and listen more actively than speak. It is best to sit opposite to maintain eye contact.
Thirdly, you need to forget your own views at least for a while and discard your beliefs so that they do not become an obstacle for the interlocutor.
So it will be better to hear the other, without trying to evaluate what he is saying, writes “Rodnoy gorod.ru”.